Dear Diary,
Its been a few days since I posted last. Once again real life had its grips on me. I did manage to escape to sl for a few hours on and off when real life wasn't interrupting me. I managed to finally get to have a "Girls night out with my "dumpster dancing twin". I logged on Sl late Saturday night after spending some time with real life friends from way back. And low and behold I got an instant instant message from Karm. She was having "one of those days" needed a friend to pick her up and bring a smile to her face. How could I turn down a chance to get in "trouble" with my twin? At this point I will refer you to exam her blog of the night.. she actually has it better laid out in her blog. You can find her blog hooked to mine.
And that leads me to a thing I have been putting off for awhile... My rules of engagement. I am telling you that I am seriously thinking that there are a lot of men out there that think that I am here to be "their play toy".. Well I am here to set the record straight in your little minds... I, IZZIE VIOLET, am here for myself. I am not YOUR SEXUAL PLAY THING. What part of that don't you get. I love to flirt and I love to roleplay but I am not here for your enjoyment I am here for mine. I am here to make friends and enjoy my second life experience. And if I happen to meet you a long the line and we enjoy each other's company so be it. I have met some really cool friends and spent some wonderful moments in sl.
So you ask what are Izzie's Rules of Engagement and how did this all come to light. A little while ago a friend had asked me to join him at a new club he was at. I did indeed join him, and enjoyed a dance or two together. While there I got a call from my friend RoKk who wanted to talk about the new club Hydra. So I excused myself from my friend said I would catch him later thanks for the dance and so on. While we were there dancing another guy must have had his eyes one me. Not that I knew cause I really wasn't paying much attention except to what my friend was saying. So I left the club and soon up pops an instant message. Hmmm... Saying good bye sorry you had to leave...Oh yea bye it was nice meeting you? (did I meet you) Normally when I see women dancing with guys or guys dancing with women I pretty much know that the rules of engagement are "Hands Off".. Do you ever wonder where the male brain is when they see you dancing with another Man or vice a versa as far as that goes?? Well I did become friends with this person after he much explained he was not there with the person he was dancing with (first Red Flag ...Ignored) Soon there was daily conversations ... which eventually lead to my rant one night while dancing at Khon's IZZIE'S RULES OF ENGAGEMENT....
These are the things that annoy me the most and yes sometimes I even break my own rules. Why cause I am only human. So here goes:
1. When you are meeting me on sl for the first time don't open the instant message with me "Hey baby wanna Fuck" cause that will only get the door slammed in your face or I might ask you if you know what the mute button is used for. If you answer NO I will show you the light by pressing that button that says Mute to hear nothing but silence from your Instant message box leaving you to scratch your head going "hmmm". But I might not leave it at that. I might tell one of my many Male friends that find guys like you annoying and you will soon have a conversation with them. I have found out that many of them care about me and are at the ready to come to my side.
2. When you have engaged in conversations with me don't tell me 5 minutes into the conversation "I am falling madly in love with you" cause your full of yourself . You can't possibly know that your in love with me and its your way of trying to have Pixel sex with me. So not going to happen after knowing you like five minutes or even possible days. That is a we will wait and see how things go.
3. After confessing how much you love me (and if I believe you) and I have offered you a tp .. don't say to me " hold on I am getting an interesting im from this other person and I might have to go.... they seem peeved that I didn't run right to them when I logged on " 0-o. Do you think you still have a chance with me? Um if your unsure lets clear this up right now....NO WAY IN HELL do you have a chance of remaining on my friends list or even getting close to me after that. So guess what comes into to play here? Maybe just a removal from my friends list but depending on my mood it may also include you on my muted list.
4. When you see me and I am with someone dancing or cuddling. Don't be rude and instant message me, your ruining what could be a special moment for me. I might be nice and respond but I can guarantee you that if you are instant messaging me I will be telling the guy I am with that your nothing but a jerk. Most likely you will get an instant message from the guy telling you to buzz off.
5. Don't hide from your sl partner or g/f then logg on as if nothing happened but tell them in causual conversation that you were invisible to them and the reason you were invisible was to console a dear friend ... It isn't gonna fly...They might be understanding and you might have a fight and you might make up. Then 3 days later when they logg in and you tp home while you are laying nakkid in bed with someone (the same person you consoled three days earlier) Because at that point you have lost all the trust they have put into you.
6. THE MOST IMPORTANT RULE OF ALL IS THIS. Remember that even though we are Pixels on a screen. There is a real person on the other end of the conversation that has real feelings... Not always are we able to keep that line definate between this thing called real life and the thing we call second life ..because no matter how hard we try the lines do blurr.
7. I have learned not to mix rl with sl so from this point on you will have to earn my trust to get to know my rl. Don't start out asking these questions. 1. What do you look like in rl ...Hun I am in sl and what you see is about all your going to get until I get to know you and trust you enough to become friends away from sl. 2. Do you have a webcam? Um even if I did I will tell you no sorry not in to the cam thing. 3 Please don't tell me that you like to play. Play ? well that can mean a lot of things. But I don't really want to see what you can do on the webcam. I am in second life. Your ruining my fantasy about you.
8. I am here in sl to enjoy it for myself, I don't want to be a notch on your belt or bed or any other place your keeping track of how many times you can get laid or how often. I could careless but if you truely care about me you will treat me with the same kind of respect I treat you. I am not your TOY. No matter how much you think I want you. Prove yourself first. Then lets see what kind of a relationship we can have.
9. If you have managed to get on to my friends list and you have broken one of the s rules above. Don't Im me when you have finally figured out I have taken you off my friends list and say " I am sorry if i have upset you, I don't understand what I did to make you angry. If you get no response to your first comment and you continue "please can I at least know what I did that made you upset" Cause I am hear to tell you that one of two things have happened if I did not respond. One I have muted you or Two I am waiting for you to make more of a fool of yourself so I can give you what you most likely deserve after I have given it thought.
10. If I like you, you will know by many things. Now don't screw it up cause I have started to turn a new leaf over in sl and learned really well what Mute and remove can do . Pure Bliss to stupid men trying out my rules for size...
11. Last but not least. I try to very hard to treat everyone with kindness. If you can't treat me with respect and kindness don't even get involved with me ... I wasn't born yesterday.
12. These rules are subject to change and modify at anytime as I feel the need to put it out there. If you don't like what I have said. Then move on to someone that wants you. Cause truthfully I don't need you.
So now you have seen the rules of engagement that pertain to me. And this is why I started a blog so I can say what I want and how I feel. I know there has been great talk of my Rules of engagement and I have gotten compliments on it.
Sorry no pictures today...
Peace and Love to those that are close to me
Enjoy your sl Adventure.
Izzie
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